Need help dealing with crossplatform cyberbully!

My friend got message bombing in game because a girls false accusing post on rednote, please give me a solution!

The whole thing start from a game that my friend and i playing. A man in our guild always do flirting "joke" on girls (include calling stranger little liar/ uglies, thinking whoever did the wechat nudge thing on him is liking him, spamming meaningless message in private chat).

After he tried use my friends word to mock me, i got really angry. if he mock me directly, sure, its gonna be a private 1v1 argument. but hes repeating others word to mock, not only disrespect me but also disrespect my friend. the group manager suggest him say sorry, he did, then immediatly quit group and blacklisted whoever suggested him to say sorry. (info from other guild member)

Later, my friend received a dm from the mans girlfriend (not real life one), asking what happend and why no one speaking up for him. Friend told her everything he did in the group, she replied " so yall just got mad because he calling you girls ugly? wow, then how about i shoot the word to you everyday, your welcome", plus saying my friend is just jealous about her because my friend got a failed relationship before. Of course, my friend think this conversation is ridiculous, so she did a screenshot and shared it in game space (no name been shown).

Second day, some people from rednote dm`d my friend that our game id and server name appearing on a post that is accusing us for flirting with her boyfriend, and we force him to say sorry because we cant get him. People whose id got revealed received a lot cursing when they login, and majority refuse listen the story from our side. We are not rednote user, so i want some suggestion from real users about how we can do to solve this drama...

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FitDraw5769•about 1 year ago•1

Hello, I read you and write to you because I suffered at school and that made me grow up, but for the solution you are looking for you must remove social networks and others, reset the device and act with "justice" if it exists

Intelligent_Box31•about 1 year ago•1

A common method is to register an account and then post a post to clarify yourself. The algorithm will also recommend you to users who have read the original content. We often encounter a person accusing something, and soon the algorithm will let us see the clarification of another person in the incident.

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