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He's not a harmless old man who doesn't know any better. He's a seasoned creep who has had 70 years of practice getting away with making women uncomfortable. It’s like this old man, but with less money.
They sometimes find guys like this committed crimes and got away with it.
This is harassment. But you could also take it from the angle that he needs a wellness check for possible dementia. Tell them he keeps coming to your door by mistake and you think he has memory problems. Asshole problems require asshole solutions.
Have you shown these videos to property management? He’s messing with your packages and opening your door. They need to tell him to stop.
Have you reported him to Adult Protective Services? Tell them he’s confused and constantly trying to enter your home. Hopefully he will take the hint.
He says "C'est la vie". Prounced "say la vee"
This is a certified creep. Only God knows what he did and got away with in his younger years
If this video was 15 seconds of this behavior, you might be able to excuse him as a doddering old codger looking to break his loneliness.
What I see is a creepy, desperate man who won't let his significantly younger neighbor live peacefully without harassment. While the cops almost certainly won't do anything at the moment, a police report is a good start to a paper trail.
It is honestly very scary to be a woman sometimes. Not all men behave this way, but some older men still seem to think they can get away with this kind of behavior if they do not see you with a man by your side.
I had an encounter with an older man who followed me around the store some years ago and then confronted me because I did not say hello to him. I apologized, greeted him, asked how he was doing, and asked if we knew each other. He said he was just trying to talk to me.
I explained that I was with my children and a bit distracted, and I wished him a nice day. If I had not been in the South, I might have responded more directly or asked for a manager, but in that moment I felt like I would not get much support, so I chose to defuse the situation with kindness.
The man was not being subtle. He was loud, gesticulating, and abrasive. The manager and other customers saw this man following me around the small store trying to get my attention, yet no one stepped in to ask if I was okay or what was going on. When he blocked me in the aisle, I knew that matching his aggression could make me seem like the aggressor, so I stayed calm.
I can't post the backstory from her for some reason. Link


