She explains why having more than a certain number of kids is neglect.

I changed many diapers for my youngest brother. The age gap between us was only 6 years. There were 6 kids in my family and I was number 3. We were all used to raise children younger than us

Male vasectomy is an in-office procedure and $50-$100 copay with insurance. Having sex without the worry of impregnation is priceless. 

Also, if you're eager to have kids there are  roughly 150 million orphans in the world. 

my mom is 1 of 13 and yes. the oldest daughter ended up single, no kids, military general (nurse). oldest son, also military, stopped at 6. youngest son also ended up with 6 kids between two marriages and the youngest daughter had 1 kid. everyone else had 3 or 4 kids.

This is called the quiver-full movement.

Parentifying your children is abuse, full stop.

My grandmother was the oldest of 14. She raised the youngest children. My dad is the oldest of 8, he had a similar childhood. I am the middle of 3, and I had two kids. And my 25 year old is not having any kids. That is a snap shot of America birth rate in 4 generations.

Anyone got context?

Edit: I'm looking for what she's referring for gossip sake. I want the tea for what sparked the video, not trying to justify having more than 4 kids.

I came from 7, oldest girl and it's true. I never got what i needed. The only good news is we are all close as adults. They are my tribe.

She is spot on.

I can remember colleague of mine who got his fourth child when he was quite old actually. But he was bragging how perfect it was, because his oldest daughter said that she would take care of the baby. I wanted to punch him on the mouth for that.

And then sometimes your kids start sexually abusing each other.

Just ask the Duggars how that worked out for them.