Is @extradwife7 a grift?

She's on day 16 of posting everyday while she figures out her life. The story is she lived an upper middle class life with her husband in five kids and one day he decided he wanted a divorce and he was going to give her a year to get on her feet. She goes and gets her real estate license but 3 months later he abandons them all together.
She says he drained the bank account quit his job gambled away all his money and she's struggling to pay all the bills with almost no work experience and now she's looking for a third job. When people have suggested hiring an attorney she said it was pointless because she didn't have any money and now he doesn't have any money.
It seems suspicious to me from the beginning but someone in the comments today mentioned that her GoFundMe is now at $20,000. What are your thoughts?





