Chinese people wants to give me gifts because I'm their friend on xiaohongshu

And a Japanese friend of mine told me that this is oriental culture, because they think it is very important to give presents. I have Chinese friends (but I know them personally) and they are always giving me presents, but since I don't know the friends that I made on xiaohongshu and they want to send me presents to my home, I found this very strange. If someone is a Chinese person here, please answer me about this. Is it normal?

Comments

Character_Slip2901•over 1 year ago•2

As a Chinese, I don't think it is normal. I will not present someone who I know online.

SlowGTO•over 1 year ago•1

Oriental

Mother-Ad-5993•over 1 year ago•1

人逗你玩呢，你还真信啊 表示下友好回绝即可

not normal , just polite refusal

ClearBed4796•over 1 year ago•1

Dont tell people where your home is

wochiblabla•over 1 year ago•1

不好说，得看他具体想做什么，我觉得还是拒绝比较好

Mean-Government-2381•over 1 year ago•1

Kinda suspicious

Soggy_Pomelo8121•over 1 year ago•1

Japanese culture is NOT Chinese culture

mchotwheel•over 1 year ago•1

Not really normal actually. I may not be Chinese but basically it's polite. There can be polite people in the world.

Born-Adagio6485•over 1 year ago•1

PO Boxes for the win

Longjumping_Pear1250•over 1 year ago•1

Politly refuse don't send anyone personal info on the internet at all (that's a rule on all sites)

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