am i safe?

bg story: some guy i never interacted with from mainland china just messaged me asking to be my friend i thought they wanted to be my friend cause of a post asking for foreign friends but no. btw i’m from singapore but ethnicity is chinese so we spoke in chinese this guy never revealed his age on xhs and asked me to log onto a QQ acc he made for me cause i can’t use it without a mainland chinese phone number so things got weird when he asked for a pic of myself i didn’t want to send a full pic of myself i think he knew i was a minor and was trying to take advantage of me but i also thought hey maybe he wanted to make sure i wasn’t actually a 60 year old man trying to prey on him too so i just continued talking to him he started to compliment me a lot and then asked me if i wanted to be his gf this escalated so i asked for his age he told me 19 well it just got weird cause i told him that i am too young to date and i only wanted to be your friend he probably mistook my compliments as hints of wanting to date so i just left cause he started urging me and i knew this was just wrong i also know he was using manipulation on me by saying he’ll never leave me and all that but if he had good intentions he wouldn’t go after a minor

if you’re a QQ user i wanna know if logging on to another person’s account may get your information leaked to them cause i wanna make sure i’m safe as a minor and i should’ve seen texting outside xhs as a major red flag 🚩 but i just wanted to make friends from china 😭😭😭 i hope he doesn’t target younger girls than me that may not know his true colours i should’ve taken a ss of his user

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NoHead1715•over 1 year ago•2

basic internet safety - don't log in to accounts created by others you just met. and if you do, change the password immediately. don't share any personal info on such accounts.

at any point you feel uncomfortable continuing conversation, just state so clearly. if the other party does not back off, just cut him off and move on with your life.

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