How to attract a different audience?

I’m new to TikTok live, (been on TikTok for years but only as a lurker) I don’t make recorded video content (yet, in the works) but on my lives it’s 99% men from different countries who watch, many of them asking me if I speak a different language so they can talk to me privately, asking me to DM them, being flirty, etc. my “about me” clearly states I’m married and my lives are daily life content, mostly cooking/baking/WFH. Nothing remotely flirty, I don’t dress “provocatively”, and I’m not asking for the kind of attention that’s being given. I try to ignore it but it’s constant. I’ve gotten around 300 new followers in the last couple weeks and literally 99% of them are men. this isn’t the attention I’m trying to get on TikTok and I’m wondering what’s the best way to change this? Do I need to make a whole new account dedicated to content?

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3yx3about 1 year ago1

If you have tits you’re gonna get perverts. I am a vtuber, I use a female model. She’s got boobies. Men are constantly in my DMS. And the real kicker here? I’m a guy irl. I don’t even TRY to hide it. So I get the simps for my model in one hand, gay men wanting the RL me in the other hand. Then the men that are bi and like my model AND me if I put both hands together.

It is what it is. Except for me I play into it since I’m only using a 3D model.

Obviously things are different in your case. This is RL and you’re married… so definitely don’t want to feed into that.

My only suggestion is try to maybe use camera angles that only show your hands making and baking? But you can also try commenting on others videos as well. You can also use the hashtags they use to try and bring their audiences in.

But other than that.. there’s no real way to get rid of simps. Trust me I know how you feel.. the only difference is since I’m a guy I know how to play into it to get more viewers. Sad truth is there’s men out there that are lonely af and will literally do anything for a woman’s attention even if that woman is fake.