I spoke on self-respect for women and got called a heifer, misgendered, and labeled a white supremacist.

I commented under a TikTok asking whether Black women should leave their hotel rooms in pajamas to get breakfast. I said:

It wasn’t a jab — it was a call for self-respect. And a lot of other Black women agreed with me. We were simply talking about how we choose to present ourselves in public spaces.

Then out of nowhere, a creator stitched the video and made a 7-minute rant, where he:

• Called me a “heifer”
• Mocked my gender: “ma’am, sir, or whatever you are”
• Told me to “shut the everlasting f* up”
• Accused me of “sounding like a white supremacist”

All of this — because I said dignity matters.

I messaged him privately, thinking we could discuss it like adults. This is what I said:

He refused to take it to DMs. He said no. So here I am.

This isn’t about canceling anybody. It’s about calling out how some people confuse “liberation” with loud, unchecked ego.

Disagreeing isn’t violence. But disrespect? That’s intentional.

p.s crazy thing is I never mentioned race I went back and looked at my comment and I never mentioned race lool