Hot take: it might be wrong but it has to be said.

So I’m a cashier & I had this mom with her kids come up & I was checking them out, as I was checking them out one of the children (she was like 12 or 13) told me over three times as they kept adding stuff to the counter that did I get this & did I get that, which I replied “yes I already got all that”, then this child goes “okay I didn’t ask for an attitude”, & I asked her to repeat what she said because I didn’t hear or think she said anything like that & she repeated it, & the mom was right there didn’t say anything to her child so I did, I told her she better watch how she talks to adults. Then they all walked off. The mom didn’t say shit to her child. Then the mom called back saying I shouldn’t have told her child anything & she knows how to discipline her child, which I just told her her daughter needs to watch how she talks to adults, (I didn’t say this) but if you don’t check your child, I know damn well I will. If she wants to talk match the same energy as an adult, then I will respond back idgaf. Maybe, also if you knew how to “ discipline your child” she wouldn’t even think to disrespect adults like that & I wouldn’t I have to do it for you. I know damn well when I was a child I didn’t even think of disrespecting adults like that, but you know in this day & age parents let their children do anything. But it’s like y’all have to watch who your children are talking to because people are crazy out here, & they don’t gaf. Some of them will even run fades with the Mom just because your child is trying to act grown mouthing off to a grown ass adult. I know damn well I would’ve ran that Mom’s fade if she wasn’t such a warrior behind the phone when she could’ve just said all that to my face if she really had a problem because I can’t fight a child but I sure can tell them to go get they momma.

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Different_Ad5087about 1 year ago1

… why is this on TikTok sub lol

saddestraccoonabout 1 year ago1

wtf

DyGage33about 1 year ago1

Well, honestly, working in customer service is pretty terrible. And yeah it kinda sucks that some kids and people aren't NICE to others. And the parent should have corrected their child's behavior, but it is weird for you to try and correct a random child's behavior.

I don't know how old you are, but I'm assuming you are over 18 since you said you were an adult. But just because you're an adult, it doesn't immediately mean you deserve respect. Especially from a random child.

Am I saying what the kid did was okay? No. Or that the Mom not speaking up was also okay? No. In a perfect world, everyone should at the very least be nice and kind to others. However, respect is earned not given. So, while not the subreddit, I think you're in the wrong for trying to tell a random kid what to do or not do and demanding respect as well.