I want to be sympathetic but wtf??

I can fix her... in selecting a food choice.

I will never understand why you‘d upload a video of yourself, that makes you look like a whiney, spoiled brat.

As someone with ARFID, being bitchy isn’t one of the symptoms 😭 I totally get the frustration of “i’ve already eaten this type of food twice today and want something else but my brain won’t LET me eat something else” but she’s acting like a petulant child about it

This is my wife. She never knows what she wants to eat but she does know what she doesn't want to eat as soon as you suggest it. So it becomes a game where I play Google and I start dropping her different places until one strikes her fancy.

As someone who always struggles to eat meals on vacation etc this kind of behavior is unnecessary. I go out of my way to plan for places to eat when I go somewhere different. I make an A plan, a B plan, and a C plan so that I am prepared for all possibilities. It is a wee bit more planning but its not that hard and it prevents me from freezing up and melting down. This helps guarantee a better time for everyone! Having difficulties in life isn't a crime but it's your responsibility to take care of yourself

My g/f telling me what she wants for dinner

I have ARFID and definitely empathize with the her frustration, but she is out of line. As frustrated as I sometimes get, I understand people can’t read my mind and it’s not their fault when I can articulate how I’m feeling. The way she’s just rolling her eyes kinda gets me, she’s being a brat.

Sounds like the problem isn’t the selection of food but a spoiled princess who doesn’t actually know what she wants so just complains about every option

Yeah idk...posts like these to both posters kinda reinforces stigma around E.Ds, people are already heavily undereducated on the topic so now u got folk in the replies being phobes and ists to E.D survivors

Just because you have an issue doesn't excuse shitty behaviour