This is such an interesting take

Go to therapy

This girl needs therapy. She had no actual complaints about her dude based on the snippets I was able to watch of her complaining IN GENERAL about her life, while she was blaming it on marriage.

My ex wife was like this. I had my own issues but yeah she could never be happy, and when she realized I wasn't the problem, she wanted me back.. but by then I had realized that I was a lot happier without someone who refused to seek treatment for her mental health issues.

Life can be a real struggle and it isn't usually any one person's fault. This woman is about to hurt herself in her confusion

This woman is obviously broken in the sense she has a hole that just can't be filled. Says she has a good man, admits nothing is bad in the relationship, does all of the things she wants to like traveling and going out... but still thinks being married is the problem and it's better to be alone.

I don't even understand why she believes marriage, even though it's a good marriage by all reasonable standards including her own standards, is somehow the source of her melancholy.

At least she did it at 7 years. My wife decided the same shit after 13 years. I got injured and needed help. More support than anything (not even financially bc I retired at 35) but she decided that her “friends” were more important and left. Today, her friends are getting married, dating and all moving away, leaving her alone in her “new” apartment. I literally went to war for this chick (3 tours), so that I could build her a house, buy her a car, send her to school, all while she went home and hung out with her friends from her hometown, jobless, no bills, just partying for a year. It’s whatever, just feel bad for that guy bc I am that guy.

Poor guy, probably just vibing at home. Edit: kept watching. This girl definitely shouldn’t have kids.

Why wouldn't you be able to be alone to do things alone or be by yourself just cause you have a man? lol. I have a girl, and we both still are able to do our own thing.

Not interesting in the slightest. She is an entitled and selfish partner. Poor guy.

“You lose your sense of individuality”

That’s called a partnership. You cease to be independent, and become interdependent. You don’t lose yourself. Ideally, you become something greater in totality. That doesn’t mean you won’t have ups and downs with your partner. But it does require humility, which is something modern women especially are lacking due to societal conditioning.

“when she realized that I wasn’t the problem, she wanted me back.”

Damn man. You just filled in some blanks for me. Thank you.

Go to a therapist, Christ .