Harmful deleted 88k Tik Tok video

Warning: I am about to tell a story which contains serious and sensitive subjects to viewers. ‼️‼️

Hi, I want to share a story that’s made me be stressed out by Tik Tok. I got blocked by a content creator on Tik tok recently. And she also made a video about me. Because I reported her to Tik Tok. After I had requested her to remove a video that could normalise sextortion and coercive control in cases of revenge in intimate relationships.

She read out a story from the perspective of someone committing a seriously abusive act as revenge in an intimate relationship without condemning it. The content creator also liked a comment in her comments section endorsing revenge porn as a form of revenge in intimate relationships.

The video had 88k views and she has nearly 500,000 followers. Luckily she very reluctantly deleted the video. She said she was deleting the video for “sensitive souls”.

The next day she made a retaliatory video saying I was going after her and causing trouble when I just wanted to keep people safe from harmful content. She misled her audience into thinking the report was about something minor or petty, when in fact the orginal video I reported referenced a serious form of abuse.

In her retaliatory video she didn’t take any accountability about the harm her original video could have caused. And how she could have harmfully influenced people into believing sextortion is ok as an act of revenge when it’s definitely not. night”. She crossed an important line by presenting sextortion and coercive behaviour in a way that could be misinterpreted as acceptable or justified in acts of revenge. When it is absolutely not acceptable. She also could have seriously retraumised victims.

I’ve been stressed out lately because a number of comments were blaming me for being upset with her. There was even people in the comments section of her video telling her to name and shame me. This could constitute “harassment with plausible deniability.” I will email Tik Tok that this situation has made me feel on edge despite the original video being deleted.

Have a great day 🙌🙌

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