why do my comments not show up for others?

why does tiktok show that my comments went thru on my end, but when i go on another account of mine and see that its not posted for anybody else to see. tiktok doesnt inform me of the fact my comments dont get posted and its been happening for years, some people can comment slurs and i cannot comment normal things without tiktok censoring me? sometimes i have to rewrite the comment 5 times for it to FINALLY appear to other people as well, many times it doesnt work at all.