A child should be able to feel comfortable at home.

nah bruh, that’s hella weird. i’d have swimming parties with my stepkids and never felt uncomfortable. making someone in florida put on sweats and a long sleeve? just so your man feels comfortable? do you fucking hear yourself

Sorry, I understand what you’re saying. But your blonde beard had me going off.

One of the few things my mom did right. My step dad tried to tell me not to leave the house in the shorts I was wearing. I didn’t even argue with him. I just said “ask my mom.”

She put her hand on her HIP! Asked him why my shorts were wrong, they passed the “bend over” test (couldn’t see my butt when I was bending over) i’ve never seen a man so incredulous in my life. He couldn’t say what the problem was without sounding like a creep. So he shut his mouth and let me out the door.

I think he realized something that day, because he never made a comment about my clothing after that. I was a CHILD. And no MAN should be “uncomfortable” with a CHILDS clothing. Unless they are wearing lingerie, you can STFU.

Agreed. His issues with personal desire is an issue he needs to resolve on his own.

That man is a walking red flag. She needs to stop having him around her children immediately! He is most likely with her because she has kids. Pedos target single women with children. Look at his dating history, are all of his exes single women with children? If so run!

Respect to this guy talking. That's a hard situation to see, and he was lucid as hell about what he saw.

He is right. Only issue with getting the hell out of there was leaving vulnerable people behind.

ChoMo?

I can’t be fake either but I would be happy to make things awkward for my friend and her creepy ass man. I would absolutely ask that man questions in a way that would make me seem interested in learning about my friends boyfriend.

There’s just no way I would leave. I’ll lecture my friend until they remove me out of their life. That red flag is just too big to ignore.

Unfortunately I am the friend that my friends don’t tell me certain things about their men because of how protective I am of some of their dumbasses. I was raised by a single dad and I know a good man from a bad man. Too many men are bad.

She's the same type of parent when her child reports being SA by their partner they won't believe them or blame them like for not covering up🙄🙄 also he ain't even their step-dad and shes following all his rules🤨🤨is wild.