Many of my comments don’t get displayed on my account but do on other accounts, how can i fix this?

I have this problem that whenever i post something, one or two comments are visible on my post from other accounts, but not for myself, which is especially frustrating since that means i can’t reply to them 😭 i‘ve gone through every setting to see if i‘ve got anything restricted but theres NOTHING. an i mean wouldn’t it not show up on other accounts either if somehow my settings prevent it from getting through? Also, i get the notifications for these comments and everything, they are just not visible for myself on that post