How women feel being approached by men, explained by a man

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Own_Round_76003 months ago954

And all those people who are hoping for some of your money are also bigger, taller, and easily twice as strong as you.

Kramerica_ind993 months ago405

Add to the fact that most men are physically much larger. Imagine being pestered for attention and sex by giant NFL players all day.

STALKS_YOUR_MOTHER3 months ago179

The coolest part about all this is if you’re a guy who’s considerate about women’s feelings, you probably won’t bother approaching them, meaning that all the men left approaching women are the ones who don’t give a shit.

EmperorGrinnar3 months ago160

Everyone should give respect to others. Respect a person's space, respect their time.

Edit: apparently people are taking exception of inclusionary language. I meant specifically that we should be respecting the boundaries of women, as the video is talking about.

the-furiosa-mystique3 months ago138

I love his sweater

atheenaaar3 months ago113

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Cultural_Cloud963 months ago74

He is so right. Like thats a perfect analogy. I feel the same way about salesmen in a store. Hello do you need help? No, please leave me alone while i browse your store and leave with nothing because im just looking at what you got and purchasing something that requires help is not on the agenda for me right now.

SufficientSucculentt3 months ago66

Yup. Because if you don’t know me, why are you asking me out? I have to KNOW YOU before you can start making moves on me the same way I have to KNOW YOU before lending you money.

If you don’t know me, all you want is my looks. No fucking thank you. That’s shallow as hell and I don’t know who the fuck you are.

viridian_moonflower3 months ago52

This is 100% accurate. I’m an older woman but this happened to me constantly when I was younger. I could not go anywhere without being bothered and I was just an average looking young woman.

And also people literally asking for money constantly because I lived in a city- people from charities as well as randoms asking for change. And then when you try to appear unapproachable or ignore them you get cursed at or harassed/ followed.

Hot-Butterscotch-9183 months ago50

I like the analogy; if you make 10 sandwiches and one of them has shit in it, you need to be wary of all the sandwiches. Now, I'm hungry.