Misery loves company I guess?

Get therapy

Sad

how bout you just let him convert you and usher you into the fold

This is not a flex, it’s fucking sad.

it is bad when they woudl rather be with their fucked up miserable dysfunctional family

unfortunately when people sometimes grow up in unloving households like that it is all they know :(

there Is no fixing them

I've done this in the past, please don't do it and push yourself and others away. It's likely you have some serious past traumas that need attention and correction.

I had a girlfriend in my 20s that wanted me to be sad, happy or angry when she was. She would get upset if I was enjoying myself and she wasn't. I was always making her feel bad... She threatened to hurt herself if I left her. When I finally left she had another boyfriend within a few days, I stayed single for a couple of years. People are crazy sometimes.

Some people would rather drag someone into a bad relationship over working on their own problems and faults.

If you’re a person that truly thinks like this, it isn’t cute please get some help.

Fear of success. Inability to trust. Belief you are doomed.