Her children aren't getting their basic needs met by their father.

The no underwear really scares me. It’s like, what’s happening to the underwear she is going over to her dad’s in? Why isn’t it coming back with her or being washed so she can wear it at his place? Red fucking flag.

Why is this on the Internet?! This needs to be settled privately

My dad was a perfectly good man. I can’t imagine having a dad like that.

Ppl saw this and immediately

Why doesn’t mom…

The children belong to them both and both parents responsibility.

The misogyny in this comment section is exactly why I will always be pro womans choice only for abortions.
Society really thinks men are doing a woman a favor for being in THEIR childrens life. Ugh

So if her kids only have underwear at her house, why not send them with underwear? Why air this on the interweb? Dad sounds like a real beauty, poor kids.

Why do people post shit like this.

What is wrong with some of y’all in the comments section?

https://preview.redd.it/0jk152ft12eh1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d7914a954d0ac939dd0e750c71d80dd50310a298

Dude sounds like a fucking bum.

Some things just don't add up for me:

1. How does dad have custody and she only has visitation? Courts tend to side with mothers and if he was this neglectful, it would come up.

2. She says she showed a (female) friend the screenshots and this woman admonished her. Women tend to side with women in these types of child safety situations, especially around female care products. Whatever this friend saw, she still sided with dad.

3. As others have mentioned, posting a tearful airing of this issue on social media, while also taking legal action is counternproductive to each other.

4. This woman's interpretation of whatever responses she got are extremely hyperbolic, i.e. "He told me I was sexualizing my son", "She said I was the worst parent ever." I have a hard time believing all these people had those kinds of reactions to the isues she described bringing up.

It is reminiscent of patterns of manic manipulative behavior I have seen exhibited in people who constantly play the victim.

Maybe her friends and ex-husband are really that shitty, but my instinct is that she's painting a really one-sided picture and we're not getting the whole story.

So the 'friend' and dad are fucking, right?