What do yall think about the straight women dating bi men discourse?
Ive been watching this discourse unravel for some time. Inputting my opinion in here and there as I don’t believe anyone, especially men, should be able to discuss and shame women for their preferences. Ive been called a bigot, ive been called homophobic, even misogynistic if you can believe it. Just simply for wanting to date a straight man as a straight woman.
Ive been told to “unpack” and “get rid of your bias” and I can only image the result of doing so would open more women up to dating straight men, which to me, is coercion. I get hit with “you’re doing darvo” ot just straight up misogynistic and abusive language toward women coming out of the mouths of WHITE queer men. Ive begun to feel like this discourse is only about the access these men want to our bodies, and their need and desires to feel oppressed as white cisgendered men.
