how do i stop tiktok pushing my videos out to men?

im 18F, and everytime i post a video i get grown men commenting weird things or hating on me (not to mention the amount of message requests i get from them). i dont even try to present myself in a male gaze way, i just put on makeup and im always covered up. the thing is i have never had a boyfriend and i’ve never gotten attention from men, but when i post on tiktok suddenly all the weird and rude men comment.

I barely get women interacting with my videos, and I hate it. I try and dress up cute and do my makeup cute to fit the female gaze more, but it doesnt work.

what do i have to do so less men view my videos and more women do?

Comments

bunnyrealityabout 3 hours ago1

Try more feminine tags or phrases like “grwm” or “makeup”. You could even just add key phrases that you see commonly posted by men such as “beautiful” or “😍” so you don’t have to see it as often

BasketKey5193about 3 hours ago1

Add hashtags like wlw to your videos maybe that helps

KeegersNeegersabout 3 hours ago1

If you put yourself out on the Internet, you're allowing anyone to have access to whatever you posted. The Internet doesn't discriminate between weirdos, normal people, men, women, anything.

Keeping that in mind, only post what you're comfortable with your grandmother seeing lol.

interveinsabout 3 hours ago1

Oh honey I'm in the same boat. I've had multiple videos go viral which were pushed to men in the USA (I'm a girly girl in the UK) and I've had around 10k followers from those videos alone that were just men

Over the last few years I've been removing and blocking the existing men in bulk, TT puts a daily follower removal limit lol sadly so it's going really slow. Any new male followers unless I know them or they're actively posting normal content or not fucking shite edits/unoriginal shit I remove straight away too- apparently this is a good signal to TT who you want your audience to be but then God knows what TT wants from you these days.

All of my content I will hashtag #girltok #forthegirls etc

I'll regularly engage with and follow girls who's content I love and is similar to mine

I'll also write key words on my videos relating to girly content and what I see on videos that reach me

I hope this helps sweet pea

CadaversFabricationsabout 2 hours ago1

bro I'm fucking hungry

Curious-Weather-4390about 3 hours ago1

Its unfortunately what its for