@deansbiglife (formerly fostertheteens) complete about face

@deansbiglife (formerly fostertheteens) complete about face

First of all I want to say that it sounds like this family has an incredibly difficult life, and I wish them the best.

It REALLY bothers me how this creator went from advocating for autonomy and privacy of children and teens (when she was fostering) to putting literally every single detail of her medically fragile and complex son online. This baby boy is profoundly disabled, and will likely never be able to consent to his medical info being plasterd all over every platform nor will he be able to advocate for himself. She posts pics and videos of him in the hospital at his most vulnerable.

It just feels SO icky. There are ways for her to share her experience and journey without exploiting her 8 month old. I used to really like her, I just can't wrap my head around her thinking on this.

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Fit-Meringue2118•about 19 hours ago•33

It’s probably not going to make you feel better, but content creating involves narratives. Narratives usually exist for a reason. The privacy narrative with the foster kids existed because foster parents can’t post them. The public narrative with her kid exists because $$$. I’m not even sure I resent her for the latter because I suspect that money and awareness directly benefits the child who will have lifelong needs. 

I agree with you about the ickiness.  

Bippity_Bobbity_Boop•about 19 hours ago•9

Definitely icky.

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