I recently saw a guy live on TikTok, and I found him very attractive. He sent me a direct message and followed me. We've been communicating on Snapchat and have joined each other's live streams. He lives five hours away from me, and we've decided to meet halfway at a hotel in a major city. We plan to go out beforehand. I understand that this is more common in today's generation. Am I making a mistake by going?
From a fellow OF model to another: No.
Any guy that isn’t driving the majority of the way to meet you is a red flag. He needs to be putting in more of the work regardless of his level of attractiveness because YOU are attractive too. You are better than what he is trying to offer you, he needs to impress you on a first date!!! 💋
Be careful at the hotel and watch your drink closely. You just never know. Please also share your location and plan with a trusted love one.
No, you're not making a mistake. Just stick to public areas only for your first meeting and have fun :)
I’ve seen a few successful relationships that stemmed from TikTok. As others mentioned, I’d stick to public spaces for a while. Wishing you the best!
When I used to be on the apps I ran a background check with just the phone number to make sure he wasn't a criminal or worse married or romantically involved. I weeded out quite a few this way. I ran my check after they gave me there number and before I gave them mine. Always better safe than sorry. And I always shared info and pics of the guy with a friend in case I disappeared.
Wow, you are amazingly gorgeous. Be careful of course, but this is a common thing. So I wouldn’t worry. Don’t drink alot. Wish it was me
This isn’t uncommon, just trust you gut instincts. If something feels off bail. If things don’t add up bail.
share your location with a trusted friend or family member, when you go out, tell them. bring some self defense stuff in your purse if anything were to happen. pepper spray kitty knuckles and an alarm. if you go out, bring your OWN rental vehicle, even if you’ll be going back to the same hotel. people make that exact mistake all the time, and they end up out in the middle of nowhere. keep control of your surroundings, watch your drink or get a cover.
Low key live stream if anything happens so someone can call 9-11
I don't know the situation, but I'd bet he not just wants but expects sex. If that's what you want, cool, it not, just be prepared.
