What does this mean on bf phone

Yea, it’s definitely someone he has watched multiple videos of and TikTok is letting him know he missed one.

If you are that paranoid that you are being cheated on don’t be in a relationship.

It only tells me about a few days after I looked through a person's profile. And looked at ALL vids and took time to look at them. I also did a check on her profile. All posts are pretty hefty in views with random men sending hearts and stuff, the posts are mainly of a$$ pics (clothed but still. Showing toned ass)

Sorry girly. Dump him if he's so adamant he "never watched her" cause what tf else is he lying about if he can so easily say through his teeth he never seen this gal when tiktok gives you that "hey you missed a post"

You can also hit the notification bell on that specific account to get updates when they post something immediately and go live. That's how i know some of my favorite voice actors just posted a new thing that i haven't seen yet.

I definitely do think that he uses this person's content for masterbation purposes since looking at porn just doesn't hit for him properly. It's someone who he "has a chance with" in better or worse terms. Since he can message the person and they may message back.

That's how My ex cheated on me. Was messaging a fitness junkie on Instagram, because porn doesn't do It for him. But her posting her fitness workout progress. Like a flat stomach. Wearing a bra to the gym. Tight ass pants. All that type of stuff was doing it for him

You are a jealous partner that’s making up situations in you head that haven’t even happened! LOL

This happens with all TikTok videos. It’s part of the “For You” notification page to let you know a creator has uploaded content you haven’t watched. It can be old or new content. It’s not time based.

I have them and so does my partner. Everyone gets them as long as notifications are turned on. It’s a fitness channel. Kian-Fitness is newly 50% reposted fitness posts, odd nutrition posts, and 50% original content.

To me, it’s lots of one of those Chinese “5 Minute Hacks Channels” - it’s garbage for the sake of posting. A list of fitness channels are like that it back to your main question - WHEN did he watch them? Well, that’s not the issue. The issue is that TikTok is TRYING to get your partner to watch and open the app. More times using the app, more revenue from sponsored channels so they send out notifications if you’re a creator to get likes views, sell a product, and make cash for the app.

What you need to be worried about is if you see message notifications for the channel. The channel is literally about fitness and large enough that your partner probably doesn’t actually speak or connect with the creators behind it - notice I said CREATORS. It’s junk channel. You can watch 2 videos and still get notifications especially if your partner is trying to lose weight and is watching many fitness channels in general.

TikTok doesn’t care if you watch the channel regularly or not, it will profit you because it’s part of the “For You” settings.

NOW, put your partners phone down, stop making up situations in your head that haven’t happened, and look up with ECPA. It is a federal crime to go through your partners phone and personal electronic communications without express consent - seriously - that’s a federal law. If it’s kit your phone it’s kit your business.

People are allowed privacy and you jumping to conclusions doesn’t help a relationship. If you’re insecure. That’s YOURE issue to work through. If your partner says he hasn’t watched those videos in weeks - he was probably avidly watching a lot and now it’s notifying him so that Tijtok and a brand make money’s learn how TikTok works. Work on your insecurity issues before you destroy your relationship.

Next, a man will leave you after being accused only so many times of something he hasn’t done, men don’t think like that - we don’t think like women where every little thing means something, like cheating.

I will tell you from my life experience of being in a monogamous relationship for 17 years (not that it matters - but I’m gay). My partner and I have alone time, together time, alone friends, together friends, and our phones are personal. We don’t look at each at each others phones because its not our business what on the others phone because we trust each other and IF we want to see the others phone we politely ask and say “I accidentally saw this. Is there anything we need to talk about?” This is how adult relationships work.

My man at any time can go through my phone and my pictures or whatever he wants. Same with his phone. He can ask at any time. What he’s going to find on my phone is work shit, pictures of us, pictures of our dogs, random screen shots I accidentally took, me gossiping with my bitches through text about our men and and crazy convos we have, sharing random memes and videos, some games, apps, and nothing else.

Personal and private time is perfectly acceptable you dont need to know EVERYTHING this man does or watches when you have google and can look the account up that has a notification and see its trash channel.

I don’t know where you live, but I assume America. If you PST time it’s 239AM and if it’s EST it’s 539AM.

Now, best advice you’re ever going to get - give your partner the privacy they deserve, stop going/looking g though his phone, stop making up scenarios in your head, get your ass back in bed, go to sleep, and GIVE THE MAN THE PRIVACY I’m sure he gives you.

Stop going and looking at his phone. Not only is it against the law regardless of relationship status, it shows you’re insecure and need have an adult conversation with him if you think something is gong on. Get off Reddit and stop blasting your personal issues on Reddit because you’re jealous of a notification!

Reread that last paragraph then go get naked and give your man the attention im sure he deserves! Trust me, he much rather you give him “attention” he NEEDS than being accused of anything. Now, go crawl up next to him and give him the signal you want and need him - you’re going to get along lot further with that tactic than an accusation that you made up. Give that man some pep in his step before work and something to talk about with his boys about what you did. That’s a story he’s going to want to share with his bros. In return. I promise you’ll both have a great day!

Be well and stop being insecure about a planned ad to get him to open an app for a content creator can make money.

He probably just skimmed by it on the for you page. I get that from people i dont even follow

Maybe he watches her videos because that's like his gooning content. You should tell him to turn off his notifications.

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I think you’re way overthinking this. It’s a video he watched could have been yesterday could have been a month ago. If you’re that paranoid about him watching videos then you shouldn’t even be in a relationship.