How Andrew Tate’s victims fall in love with him

I found this question on an older (6 months ago) post but I wasn’t able to comment after writing down my experience with Andrew so here ya go:

Well, Andrew is a really charming guy who knows how to play the game - especially easy for him when you already have a crush on him cause it makes you either blind or naive enough to fall into the trap.

But being this naive is the first indication that it’s easy to manipulate you so game on!

It’s the image he created on various Internet platforms which mostly speak for himself and for my part and as far I’ve „dated“ him that was enough for me to keep me hooked. Cause other than that he’s really controlling, which is absolutely paradox cause this is an attribute I don’t like or usually put up with but with him it felt like a reward because „the mighty, famous, manliest man of them all“ cared enough about me to control me.

Sounds not really healthy and it definitely wasn’t. I wasn’t in the best place mentally and therefore couldn’t really see what i was getting into..

But to answer your question- to me he was the most attractive man I’ve ever had spoken to, I felt like he understood the world and made me feel safe and heard etc. I could right novels why I fell for him and explain the whole story but it wouldn’t change the outcome cause I came to the conclusion that no woman really loves or loved him as how he portrayed it. Most of these women including me a while ago are simply obsessed with him. So deeply that we forget about morals or principles we sat for ourselves.. obsession isn’t love. It’s hard to love someone who only shows so much of themselves, enough to keep you hooked but not enough to make them see the real you - and would have the chance to blow your whole empire which is build up on a very fragile foundation. But this is another story.

His program(s)he sells to all those guys is the same game as the lover boy method to us ladies - it won’t make them find love or real fulfillment but rather shallowness and the realization of your broken pieces. He is one them, one who capitalizes either on your pain or desire to be greater. He’s not here to safe you. He’s only here to safe himself