Is anyone else sick of people posting their relationship problems?

I can understand posting on here for advice on certain subreddits (Am I overreacting, for example) since it’s anonymous, but it annoys me sooo bad when people go on Tiktok to complain about something their partner is or isn’t doing instead of talking to them about it. Or even worse, defending them in the comments after posting about how awful they are. I saw one video of a girl who’s boyfriend was literally beating her and had cheated on her multiple times, but then she was defending him in the comments. Why post about it on a very public app just to defend them?? It makes no sense and it just ends up causing more problems. Who wants their partner to post on Tiktok before talking to them?