The flinch 😭

Emotional damage

Shit hit like a bullet

People are assholes!! I could never imagine speaking to someone like that.

Im sure girls feel like doing this from dealing with gross dudes often, maybe even feel like they have to go extra with it cos of bad experiences—all seems realistic/rational.

but also like… Just a shitty way to interact with someone.

I'd probably respond the same way if a dude tried to hit on me while recording himself

Why is he recording himself?

If she reacts like, you're dodging a huuuuge bullet. Thank her.

It’s shit like this that will legit kill a man’s confidence and put him off from asking people out for like a decade. I was a chubby kid growing up so I know firsthand the terrible things girls will say when turning a dude down. I remember asking one of my friends to tell a girl I was crushing on that I liked her and to ask if she’d go out with me. I was so excited and was discreetly standing by so I could hear her response, only to have my heart shattered when she said “why would I ever go out with an ugly fatass like that?”. I never really regained the confidence I had before that, and always assume people see me as ugly. Her voice has lived in my head rent free since that day. It sucks.