This voice note a guy sent after one date is sparking a massive debate over consent vs. coercion.

This guy is talking about relationship like a sales pitch. Run . Fast and far .

This how I imagine someone from LinkedIn initiates sex

Someone on another post of this same voice note said it’s like he’s speaking business casual and I couldn’t agree more. 

My response to this guy would be “you’ve managed to dry me up like the Sahara which is no mean feat, it’s a no from me, best of luck in your endeavours”

Please stop awarding points for “honesty” in these comments.

 He’s trying to manipulate someone he barely knows and who has been CLEAR that she does not want to have sex on the second freaking date, which is entirely rational. It’s also rational to not want to have someone you barely know come over to your place; at that point you might not want them to even know where you live yet. 

If she said she wasn’t sure and he was truly interested in getting to know her better, that would be the end of the matter; but a minute-plus voicemail trying to lay our why he just neeeeeeds to have sex in order to build romance and see if he wants to see her again is a manipulation attempt.

I hope he knows we are all laughing at him.

No joke if a guy I was 100% interested in hooking up with sent me that, my answer would immediately be a no. What a creep.

I think he should’ve said,

“Hey, I’ve been thinking about our conversation during our last visit. You said you weren’t sure about intimacy. I respect that.

From where I’m sitting though, that’s a deal breaker. I didn’t want to ghost or disengage without touching base and just letting you know what happened.

I really enjoyed our time together and good luck in the future.”

The therapy-speak from the voice note guy is sending me 💀

Ew