My video got deleted to everyone but me?

(审核) Shenghe (content moderators) doing their jobs, but they're doing it very poorly. It's a daily pain among Chinese netizens. They might have treated your video as advocating for VPN usage to access content outside of the great firewall. It's common, because the authority has unpredictable temper, their definition of crossing the line is very vague. As a result the social media platforms are usually stricter than the actual line (which hard to guess, and can move).

When the Chinese really wants to talk about taboo stuff they use coded languages, or do it in private chats, or further, just climb the ladder (VPN).

And you still do not believe the censorship.

They delete without notifications. This is why I'm here because I'm frustrated that half of my comments are being deleted. There is no logic behind the deletions.

This happened to my friend but he got it back after a few hours. They could possibly be holding it for review not sure 🤔

all videos and post in rednote need to go through human moderations beforego live. and there is a significant back log due tobenglish content. check my other post on moderation insights.

The review process on RedNote can be quite peculiar; even posts by Chinese users are sometimes inexplicably deleted, even if they do not involve any sensitive content. Even when posts are removed, Xiaohongshu does not inform users why their posts were deleted. This issue has been criticized by many for a long time.
RedNote is not suitable as a substitute for TikTok. It has more features for sharing things in daily life. So if you expect it to be a replacement for TikTok, you might be disappointed.

You can only talk about things the state wants you to. 💁‍♀️ lick the boot.